Monday, April 20, 2009

I'm pretty liberal.

At least by Mormon standards.

I'm proud of myself for going this long in my blog without bringing up politics. I actually hate politics—the games, the power struggles, the insincerity, the hypocrisy. At the same time, however, I love keeping up with what's going on in the world politically—it somehow helps me feel connected to the rest of the world. It allows me to make informed decisions and form opinions about day-to-day issues which match my core beliefs.

At the risk of revealing my identity, I must confess that I have a graduate degree in political-related something-or-other. :) I both hated and loved getting this degree. It was fascinating and frustrating all at once.

I grew up in the west in the midst of some very staunch conservatives. Even now, most of my mo-friends are quite conservative. I love it. We challenge each other. We respect each other even though we don't always understand each other.

I love when people are informed about their viewpoints and can defend them when necessary. But I don't love arguing.

I don't need people to agree with me. (In fact, most of my mo-friends don't). But I do need people to accept that my views are valid. And more importantly—that they don't make me a bad Mormon.

I take care not to flaunt my “liberal” views around my mo-friends. (And I use the term “liberal” very loosely. By rest-of-the-world standards, I'm more of a moderate.) But if you ask me what I think about an issue, I will tell you.

I have found that this can put my faith under closer scrutiny. Which is no fair, no fun, and frankly—kind of a turn off. Because if you are of the mindset that there is only one Church-sanctioned viewpoint for each issue, you're not really the kind of person I want to be with.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I couldn't agree more. I feel like we should be friends. :) Except we're both posting anonymously. What a shame!

suvi said...

i'm in the same boat. Liberal and i like to call myself a feminist even (horror!). It's kept guys from asking me out, and caused one serious doubts about our compatibility. One mom told her son that this was a warning sign (btw, she'd never met me). Which is fine, it wasn't going to work in that case with him. But it still makes me really sad because really, I feel like I'm an open minded, caring individual. I don't push my views on others. I consider myself a 3rd wave feminist who just wants the women to be valued for who they are. I love having conversations about social issues and follow politics like you do. It's okay to have an opinion! And different from a general Utah one! But it's just kinda hard to sometimes convince people to get past that.

Anonymous said...

Are you sure we're not the same person?

whyimstillsingle said...

One of my few liberal girl friends married a very conservative guy a couple of years ago. I love watching them interact when it comes to politics. They will often tease each other playfully when discussing the day's news items, but there's no real incompatibility or animosity. Their relationship is very full of respect and I love it. It gives me hope!

Unfortunately, I've found that all too often mo-guys are apprehensive about my views. Clearly we haven't met the right ones yet. :)

Anonymous said...

Here's a secret. Are you ready? I am Mormon and I voted for Obama!! PLEASE don't tell my home teachers, they may stop coming. ;)